What's The Definition Of A "Crazy" Girlfriend?
- Timia Whitsey
- Jun 23, 2016
- 4 min read

These days, a man's favorite thing to tell a woman is that she's crazy. But fellas, have you every wondered how she got to be the way that she is? Maybe it was her past relationship or maybe it's your actions, but very few women are born a psycho. So let's clear some things up. What really makes a girl "crazy"?
Burning/ Destroying Your Belongings? YES
Yeah that is a little... wild. A woman who goes to these extremes is just extremely emotional. That doesn't justify their actions at all, but it just shows immaturity and reveals that she needs to improve her method of coping with her feelings. So maybe she is a tad bit on the crazy side.
Asking You Not To Talk To Certain Women?: NO
If your significant other asks you not to interact with certain women, it's not because she's crazy, but because she knows the woman's true intentions. Women know these things. We know how other girls operate, how they flirt, so forth and so on. Because men tend to pay less attention to details and don't take hints, you may not notice that a girl is trying to spit game at you. Luckily, your girl has a second set of eyes that can catch things like that for you. So instead of accusing your girl of being crazy, trust her reasoning and leave the girl alone because 9.99 times out of 10, she's right.
Spazzing Because You Didn't Respond To Her Text Fast Enough?: Eh...Kinda
This one is tough. I won't say that a woman is crazy because of this. Blame it on the instant gratification world we live in. We need everything right away. Including for you to text back! Now the part where a woman becomes crazy is if she can't understand that you were busy working, talking to your parents, napping, cleaning, etc. Ladies, be considerate. Don't let your mind get the best of you and automatically assume something inappropriate is happening because you didn't get a response right away. Now, what WILL drive a woman insane is if you text back hours later trying to carry on a dead conversation. Uh, no...try again. We'd rather you say "I'm busy right now, I'll talk to you later," instead. Try telling your girl something along those lines. It'll save you from getting cursed out today. Lol.
Showing Lots of Passion, Emotion, and Wanting Reassurance? : NO
There is absolutely nothing wrong with your girl crying, pouring her heart out to you every now and again, or wanting to hear how much she means to you. You don't know how much it would mean to her if you just reminded her how much she matters. I know it gets kind of annoying, but we all need a pick me up sometimes. She's not crazy, she just loves you! So instead of looking at her like she's weird, embrace her and appreciate the moment.
Harming You In Any Way? : YES
Although social media glorifies hitting, stabbing, tasing men, etc., it definitely doesn't make it okay to do so. And yes, it does make you crazy. I know we've all seen enough videos to know what happens when you attack a man expecting no repercussions. I'm not defending any man who puts his hands on women, but put yourself in their shoes just for a minute. How long could you tolerate someone slapping you around over a petty accusation or situation? Not very long. I've witnessed a woman beat a man with a car seat, and he just stood there and took it. No matter what the situation is, if you have the balls physically hurt a man, you have lost your mind. Handle your situations in a more mature way. If he's making you mad enough to get to that point, drop him and move on to the next one.
Getting Upset At Your Social Media? : Depends
Commenting on Lira Galore's picture with heart eyes is one thing. You're probably never gonna meet her. She's just a celebrity fantasy. If your girl is infuriated by that, she might be crazy, insecure, or both. But if you're interacting inappropriately with other girls and acting single on social media, then your girlfriend absolutely has the right to be upset. Therefore, she isn't crazy. I know what you're thinking, "It's just Twitter," (insert website of your choice). But it's disrespectful and makes it seem as though your relationship has no value to you. If you want to flirt and explore your options, just be single.
After reading these, maybe your girl isn't as crazy as you thought or even crazy at all. It may be new to have someone by your side who doesn't let you act any kind of way, but that doesn't mean that she's insane. She just wants you to have a certain level of respect for your relationship. Take into consideration some of the things discussed, try to understand it from the opposite perspective, and then determine if your girlfriend is deranged or not. Good luck!
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